The day is yours

A brand new day has come to you… Make the best possible way to spend it… Enjoy…learn… Experience… Explore new things…

Create a trait, leave a legacy behind. Be the best at whatever task is given to you. Complete the tasks which you left incomplete yesterday thinking its impossible because its a new day… New opportunity and new hopes with fresh energy. Leave behind what you thought yesterday think positively and just give life your best shot…

Fight back so hard that life will think of challenging you next time!!!!

Stay blessed. Smile and spread smiles

You are special!!!!

Each of us was created for a purpose, a special reason. All of us were born with something that’s exclusive to us…. May be something which is possessed by only us…!!! There is a trait in every one of us that is worth of being looked upto and admired for, if we choose to respect and further upon that skill or ability that is possessed by us. The choice always lies with us. To view ourselves as worthy of the regard we actually want from the world. Guys!! Each and every tiny being on earth matters… Living of every single being is interdependent!
Life is like a mirror, reflecting back everything that you throw on it. As much as we place our worth on what the world believes or perceives of us, we fail to acknowledge that we are who WE look at ourselves like!! That is how self-confidence is born. Youneed to acknowledge your own value, you need to stand for yourself, you need to be your identity card.
And once you learn to be there for yourself the world salutes you back. Yes!! Because that is the circle of life!

Smile and spread smiles

It won’t be easy but will be worth it!!

Its gonna be hard…. Its gonna be tough… Its gonna break you… Its gonna make life feel hell… It will be full of tears… It will tear you…
But for sure…. At the end all this will be worth…
For sure it will pay you all your sacrifices…
Just keep calm and work hard… Work harder and reap the rewards….
Nothing succeeds like success

Smile and spread smiles

Morning motivation

Learn to be independent enough where you can handle yourself all alone and be dependent enough on Him and trust that all your prayers will be answered !!!!
Start with a positive attitude…. Because it acts like a magnet to attract optimistic and ambitious people….!!!!
You are responsible to your own future… Write it the best way you can….!!! Because later in days of retirement you won’t be able to undo the mistakes you did in youth!!!

Keep smiling and spread smiles….

Maids!!!!

Lets take on a topic not paid much attention to…. Well maids, yeah the same lady which comes to our house, office or society compounds to clean and all other jobs which are assumed to be inferior in nature… Well, why is it inferior no one knows!!

Like, how silly can our society be…we feel that cleaning our own clothes, vessels, house and society is inferior!!! Though that isn’t the topic of discussion today but still we need to give that a thought (may be it will form a part of future topics for writing!!!)

Without beating round the bush, Lets come to the theme of discussion i.e. The treatment we give to the maids who actually help us keeping our house and the surroundings clean. I don’t know how many of you have paid an keen attention on this, because as such we never get sensitive unless and until the victim of an incidence is someone related to us emotionally or we have got some benefit out of him!!!

Maids who work in our house and work place are humans as well, it’s just a difference that we sit on chairs of responsibilities having some white collar job and they are illiterate and have an inferior job (as we think) to do. But if we think on this more prudently, without them our white collar jobs will be so damn messy.

Imagine, one fresh Monday morning, you are all set to start the week with new zest and energy and when you reach your work place you simply see the coffee mug on your desk probably which you had on week end say Saturday is a home for houseflies or something like the papers you scrapped from your desk is still making the dustbin overflow. Oooffhh!!! Wont it be a total demotivation to your freshly started motivated monday morning???

The reason for our smooth working is somewhere or the other depended on all those maids, peons and office boys whom we think have no respect. We call them “kachrewale” but guys do you realize they are the ones who clean and not the ones who litter.

Be a little sensitive to them as well… They too are humans who have families and feelings. Remember the way you react when your maid asks a day off early or informs you that she will be late the other day, the all sort of ugly faces we make.

Come on guys, that person too has got feelings, may be some work at home or a special day of her kids. Just try to be understanding because that’s what the world needs today. We have got enough technology and all sort of luxuries, its time to make our hearts luxurious!!!!

#stay happy

Keep smiling and spread smiles

Lost Kids

Have kids of today lost the innocence?? A question discussed by group of doctors in their monthly meet made me think a lot!!! My point of view for this question was bit clumpsy and ambiguous, what I feel is kids of today probably born after 2006 or say 2007, haven’t lost their innocence but have matured way earlier. They have become more aggressive, violent, impatient etc. I am not taking out negative aspects but these are few qualities randomly found in the upcoming generation (though I don’t fall in an elderly generation but lucky to be kid of 90’s).

Reasons for losing their innocence and maturing earlier is probably extra information…extra exposure to knowledge!! You might be like, Hey Aisha, how can knowledge be harmful?? But to face the fact excess of anything can be harmful, everything in life has its appropriate timing and if and only if this principle is followed then things fall rightly in right place.

So what is going wrong nowadays??

The excess use of “Smart Technology” to make the generation smarter!!! Let kids enjoy their childhood, let them collect memories of falling on sand, crying for chocolates, secretly planning against elder brother/sister, playing in mud, littering the house with craft papers then simply giving them a phone or tablet and downloading games. The games played in open air will teach them practical situations. No doubt there might be some benefits of this newly trending “Smart Technology” but it for sure has more drawbacks!!!

Getting back to why I had an clumsy answer to the newly arising question was – Though kids are getting hampered the reason for their untimely maturity is the ones who say we care for our children more then our ownselves “the parents”. Accept it or not, this is a fact that no child was born with an tablet or phone or laptops, this was all taught by parents, sometimes in excitement and sometimes just to make the child busy in some other thing because parents have got some office work or and household get together.

Its time for parents to realize that rather then making extra talented robots for future we need a little extra humanity in humans. We need to teach, the future of tomorrow is not just technology and progress, its something that makes you feel satisfied.

Well the topic can be extended as long as possible!! But can I get your views on this topic as vast as ocean??

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That Bad Dream!!!!

It was a beautiful Sunday evening…

All alone I was nearly dozing…

Thinking about our future…

Not so sure will our thoughts come true

In scorching hot sun it only we two!!

Long stretches of land and the lonely dessert..

Everything was harsh…we were all alone…

Because that was the cost we paid for our love…

We truly loved each other and weren’t gonna part…

For this we had to pay family and friends all going apart…

The initial days…we were very happy together..

We were enjoying the cozy comfy world we created for each other…

But Oops!!! That was just a start…

The black clouds started showing their art!!

No elders to guide us and be near….

No kids to laugh aloud and cheer…

Differences were all and only that arose…

Love and the understanding ..all just froze

Thoughts that now crossed were…What a mess it is being together

Tears, regrets and sorrows was all we were left with for each other…

And all of a sudden….I felt a vibration…

It was his sister…asking for coffee evening…

And Gosh!! it just felt like the bad dream got off its wing

All I realized with tears in my eyes…

And smile that was about to rise…

Our Families our with us…in all our sorrows and all our joys!!!

…This was a potrait of Another shade of love….we need a life partner for sure but one person does not comprise of entire family. You may make a new family with your partner but there will always be something missing without the elders and vice-a-versa you might make your name in society even if children marry their choices but without them society wont complete your family. Both elders as well as children need each other equally.