Being traditional!!

I would rather prefer being like a understanding wife…. Then a demanding girlfriend!!!

I would love to get a rose then an expensive date!!!

I would love the lakeside view then the five star ambience

I would enjoy a two wheeler ride where I just hug my world (that’s you) then that comfy ride in a Merc!!!

I would like you going on knees and proposing me then a heavy hefty party announcement!!!

I would love to be the girl who you choose to see escaping from the eyes of world then the one whom you would love to show off in a party!!!

I would love to sit for hours and make cards then to simply pick up a bottle of perfume and a Archies card!!!

I would prefer your name in mehendi then on a tattoo

Its a list…

I would love to go back to our old traditions and follow them religiously and be typical…. Then the hottie babe whom the world watches out…

I would love to just attract your eyes every single time you watch out to me!!!

(of course except a few bad ones… πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰)

Its beautiful to be classic in trendy world!!!!

#smile and spread smiles

Be a magnet

Being positive creates a healthy atmosphere around you…. It makes an circle that only entertains positivity!!!

Speaking ill about someone or thinking bad about someone may or may not harm the person…. But it will surely hammer your mental health.

Not for others… For sake of your own health just stay calm and happy.

Smile and spread smiles!!!!

“Samank”

She was that typical “jhalli punjabi kudi”
And he was a that “kattar shivbhakt maratha”
She was lost in her fantasies
And he was in love with hard realities of life…
She was delicate butterfly
And he was the ferrocious lion
Jingling bangles was her favorite rhythm
And his heart would dance on loud dhol taasha
Her every childish nuisance was understood by his calmness
His every mysterious “I am fine” was read by her silently
Words never were a means to describe their feelings between them
All they needed was a glance through each others eyes!!
Time together hurried and time apart never ticked!!!
Two different cultures had met…
Two different lifestyles were tied in a fate…
They accepted each other barring every small difference…
But will their families embrace the beautiful fragrance!?
A innocent question of two hearts which were now one…
A small hesitation which at times took away their smiling shining sun…

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Yet love found them both fall together…
Yet love matched their likes…
Yet love made them dance on its tunes…
Because even in hard and robustness of his physique….
Her gentle touch made him melt…
And her most sensitive eyes became strong enough when he needed some might…
Yes!!! Love can make things go upside down
Love can simply make the world smile in hardest situation…

(Complete story of my today’s instagram post!!!!

A dedication to a beautiful lovestory…. Stay blessed both of u)

Love and spread love

Smile and spread smiles

Be kind…

Be kind to everyone you meet….. Because everyone is fighting a battle…. Struggling in hard phase….!!! Don’t simply make it harder for the opposite person by your hard words…

Instead be good enough so that it creates positivity to deal hardships of life!!
Make world a better place…

Smile and spread smiles!!!

Just a step…

There’s a old saying : “Anything worth doing well is worth doing poorly at first.” It is not practice that makes man perfect; it is imperfect practise that eventually makes one perfect.
Whenever you start something new, you can expect to do it poorly. You will feel clumsy and awkward at first. You will feel inadequate and inferior. You will often feel silly and embarrassed. But this is the price that you pay to achieve excellence in your field. You will always have to pay the price of success, and that often involves hard work of mastering a difficult task or skill that you need to move at the top in your field.
Your natural talents are inborn and easy to develop. They are all programmed in your subconscious mind. Now its your job to discover this area of natural ability and then develop it till you set a benchmark in your field.
You might be just a step away from multiplying your productivity, performance and your income as well. May be you just need to bring up your skills at an higher level. All skills can be learned even if they aren’t inherent in you. You just need to give in your heart and soul, practice and use your full potential.

(Inspired by – Goals – writer – Brian Tracy)

The day is yours

A brand new day has come to you… Make the best possible way to spend it… Enjoy…learn… Experience… Explore new things…

Create a trait, leave a legacy behind. Be the best at whatever task is given to you. Complete the tasks which you left incomplete yesterday thinking its impossible because its a new day… New opportunity and new hopes with fresh energy. Leave behind what you thought yesterday think positively and just give life your best shot…

Fight back so hard that life will think of challenging you next time!!!!

Stay blessed. Smile and spread smiles

You are special!!!!

Each of us was created for a purpose, a special reason. All of us were born with something that’s exclusive to us…. May be something which is possessed by only us…!!! There is a trait in every one of us that is worth of being looked upto and admired for, if we choose to respect and further upon that skill or ability that is possessed by us. The choice always lies with us. To view ourselves as worthy of the regard we actually want from the world. Guys!! Each and every tiny being on earth matters… Living of every single being is interdependent!
Life is like a mirror, reflecting back everything that you throw on it. As much as we place our worth on what the world believes or perceives of us, we fail to acknowledge that we are who WE look at ourselves like!! That is how self-confidence is born. Youneed to acknowledge your own value, you need to stand for yourself, you need to be your identity card.
And once you learn to be there for yourself the world salutes you back. Yes!! Because that is the circle of life!

Smile and spread smiles

Morning motivation

Learn to be independent enough where you can handle yourself all alone and be dependent enough on Him and trust that all your prayers will be answered !!!!
Start with a positive attitude…. Because it acts like a magnet to attract optimistic and ambitious people….!!!!
You are responsible to your own future… Write it the best way you can….!!! Because later in days of retirement you won’t be able to undo the mistakes you did in youth!!!

Keep smiling and spread smiles….

Maids!!!!

Lets take on a topic not paid much attention to…. Well maids, yeah the same lady which comes to our house, office or society compounds to clean and all other jobs which are assumed to be inferior in nature… Well, why is it inferior no one knows!!

Like, how silly can our society be…we feel that cleaning our own clothes, vessels, house and society is inferior!!! Though that isn’t the topic of discussion today but still we need to give that a thought (may be it will form a part of future topics for writing!!!)

Without beating round the bush, Lets come to the theme of discussion i.e. The treatment we give to the maids who actually help us keeping our house and the surroundings clean. I don’t know how many of you have paid an keen attention on this, because as such we never get sensitive unless and until the victim of an incidence is someone related to us emotionally or we have got some benefit out of him!!!

Maids who work in our house and work place are humans as well, it’s just a difference that we sit on chairs of responsibilities having some white collar job and they are illiterate and have an inferior job (as we think) to do. But if we think on this more prudently, without them our white collar jobs will be so damn messy.

Imagine, one fresh Monday morning, you are all set to start the week with new zest and energy and when you reach your work place you simply see the coffee mug on your desk probably which you had on week end say Saturday is a home for houseflies or something like the papers you scrapped from your desk is still making the dustbin overflow. Oooffhh!!! Wont it be a total demotivation to your freshly started motivated monday morning???

The reason for our smooth working is somewhere or the other depended on all those maids, peons and office boys whom we think have no respect. We call them “kachrewale” but guys do you realize they are the ones who clean and not the ones who litter.

Be a little sensitive to them as well… They too are humans who have families and feelings. Remember the way you react when your maid asks a day off early or informs you that she will be late the other day, the all sort of ugly faces we make.

Come on guys, that person too has got feelings, may be some work at home or a special day of her kids. Just try to be understanding because that’s what the world needs today. We have got enough technology and all sort of luxuries, its time to make our hearts luxurious!!!!

#stay happy

Keep smiling and spread smiles

Misunderstanding!!!!

Misunderstanding….!!!
A word that can get biggest valleys in two linked destinations… And unfortunately no bridge can connect it like before….
We have become very quick and hasty in deciding whether to end the beautiful bonds… Be it friendship or anything…. We hardly think before speaking…
Its at times better to simply be a good listener…. Listen with your ears and hearts open and clean…. Because many a times even of we give a listeninng ear…. We have our pre made conceptions…. Our own conclusions which are drawn… And dont allow others to justify them selves…
Give a chance of being heard to the one who wants to explain… If you are still not convinced with the reasoning and answers…. Try to be quiet and not decide when you are actaully not in neutral state of mind…. Never ever promise when you arw too happy and never yell out when you are in a bad temper….
Just be quiet…. Sit in peace… Rethink the situation and then speak to the person…. Not everytime will the situation turn positive byt atleast you will be happy and contended that you tried your best to save things and mend them up