Get up and work!!!

It was a failure….!!! A bad failure again and she was left broken…. Shattered down in pieces… Complete depression as to what next… Because the result of course mattered a lot… And was like a gate pass to her dreams… CA!!! And multiple attempts were hand in hand… Was what she knew… But then not again was what her every drop of sweat she shed studying day in and out was screaming!!! But then that was it… The results were out and it was “FAIL
She did start doubting herself and abilities now… Can I do this? Will it be possible? Were the 1000 questions crowding in her mind… Hitting nails on her future plans, the pain of which could be seen flowing through her eyes!! In entire darkness, there comes a fairy… A fairy friend… “Figgy” and the time she wasn’t able to trust herself, this beautiful fairy says… Get up girl, you can do it.. Not because of any other reasons other then the fact – YOU HAVE TO DO IT!!! You chose the dream… You chose the path knowing that it was tough… Because you knew you could do it, because you knew you are that capable… Not everyone comes here, if you dared to step into this…. Just go and complete it… Just go and give it your best…

That fairy didn’t speak a word of sympathy… She didn’t say that “may be hard luck this time… ” All she said was… Girl, get up and put in efforts, somewhere somehow your dedication was 99% and failure was because you lacked 1% to give in your 100%!!! So don’t shed those tears… Perspire and rise up…

That fairy didn’t wipe her tears… All she said was “tears symbolize that you accept you fell short of efforts… So go and give in again… ”

That fairy didn’t even ask her to take a break for all her depression, she just said… Life played on you… Now its your turn to play back… You were thrown right on your face…
(where accept parents no one stood back with you) so now you have to throw back and prove… You are not a FAILURE. Its matter of your hardwork… Consistent hardwork… Your sacrifices…

You feel insecure about friends leaving you if you are not in contact, then remember people who leave are not permanent and people who are permanent never leave…

You feel insecure about your love cheating, then that’s not love because love binds hearts forever… And it promotes each others dream!!!

Right now… All you need is your career… Your attempt…your goal… Cz may be you will get out of depression in a day or two… But there your dad is still struggling hard to see his daughter’s failure… He still silently cries late nights and prays for your success… There your Mom still quietly adds that extra almond in your breakfast saying this will help you in good memory and you will write your papers well next time…

They both just wanna see you successful, Girl!!!!
Saying this… the fairy sums it up as “Start studying and stop pretending” FOCUS and the next result should be exactly what you want!!!
PASS

The Girl was lucky enough to get that fairy in her life… And boost her confidence!!!

Guys this one is for you…. A fairy for u…. If this was a attempt where you gave efforts and still had to accept a failure… Accept your mistakes and give it another try… Sit with your books… Avoid social media… Learn write read use any technique suitable for you… Just go and give the attempt, but this time like a warrior… You are wounded with an failure and in hindi it is said “Ghayal sher jyada khatarnak hota h” Go and give your 100% the result is waiting…. The prefix of CA to your name will be your reward!!!

Just give in your 100%, not a little less nor a little more!!!

(dedicated to a friend who’s been source of motivation to me… My Fairy…. Love u Figgy… Thank you… And I swear this time it will be PASS)

You choose!!!

Choice is yours… Your future is something what you create by the choices you make…

Basically you constantly keep making choosing things from the variety of options available infront of you…
Few choices are simple and don’t bother much… Like wearing black or white… Like a e-book or crosswords’ copy…like high heels or flats!!! It doesn’t matter even if you flip a coin and decide when it comes to such decisions… But every thing can not be decided so haphazardly and in such lousy way… Few decisions need to be taken wisely… Few choices must be made after a deep study as to how will the selection of option throw an impact on your life…

“Because life is a canvas… A plain white sheet where if you throw a colur once.. Somehow in some manner it will be a part of your final picture, you might hide it with a darker shade for your satisfaction that its not seen… But its visible”

So choice is yours… To make or to break… Both are in your hands… Both are dependent on your actions!!!
Choose wisely… Your friends, your career, your lifestyle, your habits… Because it is creating you… It is making a impression of what you are…!!!!

Smile and spread smiles

Being comfortable!

If you cannot bear your own silence and cannot handle your own chaos…. Little should you expect the world to handle it….

And if master this…. You will surely lead any situation in life to success!!!

Be comfortable with your own self!!!

Smile and spread smiles

Be a magnet

Being positive creates a healthy atmosphere around you…. It makes an circle that only entertains positivity!!!

Speaking ill about someone or thinking bad about someone may or may not harm the person…. But it will surely hammer your mental health.

Not for others… For sake of your own health just stay calm and happy.

Smile and spread smiles!!!!

Be kind…

Be kind to everyone you meet….. Because everyone is fighting a battle…. Struggling in hard phase….!!! Don’t simply make it harder for the opposite person by your hard words…

Instead be good enough so that it creates positivity to deal hardships of life!!
Make world a better place…

Smile and spread smiles!!!

The day is yours

A brand new day has come to you… Make the best possible way to spend it… Enjoy…learn… Experience… Explore new things…

Create a trait, leave a legacy behind. Be the best at whatever task is given to you. Complete the tasks which you left incomplete yesterday thinking its impossible because its a new day… New opportunity and new hopes with fresh energy. Leave behind what you thought yesterday think positively and just give life your best shot…

Fight back so hard that life will think of challenging you next time!!!!

Stay blessed. Smile and spread smiles

You are special!!!!

Each of us was created for a purpose, a special reason. All of us were born with something that’s exclusive to us…. May be something which is possessed by only us…!!! There is a trait in every one of us that is worth of being looked upto and admired for, if we choose to respect and further upon that skill or ability that is possessed by us. The choice always lies with us. To view ourselves as worthy of the regard we actually want from the world. Guys!! Each and every tiny being on earth matters… Living of every single being is interdependent!
Life is like a mirror, reflecting back everything that you throw on it. As much as we place our worth on what the world believes or perceives of us, we fail to acknowledge that we are who WE look at ourselves like!! That is how self-confidence is born. Youneed to acknowledge your own value, you need to stand for yourself, you need to be your identity card.
And once you learn to be there for yourself the world salutes you back. Yes!! Because that is the circle of life!

Smile and spread smiles

Morning motivation

Learn to be independent enough where you can handle yourself all alone and be dependent enough on Him and trust that all your prayers will be answered !!!!
Start with a positive attitude…. Because it acts like a magnet to attract optimistic and ambitious people….!!!!
You are responsible to your own future… Write it the best way you can….!!! Because later in days of retirement you won’t be able to undo the mistakes you did in youth!!!

Keep smiling and spread smiles….

Maids!!!!

Lets take on a topic not paid much attention to…. Well maids, yeah the same lady which comes to our house, office or society compounds to clean and all other jobs which are assumed to be inferior in nature… Well, why is it inferior no one knows!!

Like, how silly can our society be…we feel that cleaning our own clothes, vessels, house and society is inferior!!! Though that isn’t the topic of discussion today but still we need to give that a thought (may be it will form a part of future topics for writing!!!)

Without beating round the bush, Lets come to the theme of discussion i.e. The treatment we give to the maids who actually help us keeping our house and the surroundings clean. I don’t know how many of you have paid an keen attention on this, because as such we never get sensitive unless and until the victim of an incidence is someone related to us emotionally or we have got some benefit out of him!!!

Maids who work in our house and work place are humans as well, it’s just a difference that we sit on chairs of responsibilities having some white collar job and they are illiterate and have an inferior job (as we think) to do. But if we think on this more prudently, without them our white collar jobs will be so damn messy.

Imagine, one fresh Monday morning, you are all set to start the week with new zest and energy and when you reach your work place you simply see the coffee mug on your desk probably which you had on week end say Saturday is a home for houseflies or something like the papers you scrapped from your desk is still making the dustbin overflow. Oooffhh!!! Wont it be a total demotivation to your freshly started motivated monday morning???

The reason for our smooth working is somewhere or the other depended on all those maids, peons and office boys whom we think have no respect. We call them “kachrewale” but guys do you realize they are the ones who clean and not the ones who litter.

Be a little sensitive to them as well… They too are humans who have families and feelings. Remember the way you react when your maid asks a day off early or informs you that she will be late the other day, the all sort of ugly faces we make.

Come on guys, that person too has got feelings, may be some work at home or a special day of her kids. Just try to be understanding because that’s what the world needs today. We have got enough technology and all sort of luxuries, its time to make our hearts luxurious!!!!

#stay happy

Keep smiling and spread smiles