Did you confess your love to the one you just stared at through the lectures? Did you approach the one whom you have secretly been admiring since weeks and months? Did you express yourself to the one whose one glimpse makes you feel chills in the spine?
Today I would rather like to share my view on the same topic – Expressing love and gratitude!
Guys, do you realize that having a crush is rather easy then collecting the guts to go and express things! It is really a tedious task (of course if you mean your feelings for a lifetime which a rare scenario in today’s time) to confess your feelings to someone whom you look forward to spend a life with. It is like you need to pour the entire pot of feelings in a tiny bottle. Is this article something like – “5 ways to express your love” or “Tips to successful proposal”? Naah, not at all. The next few paragraphs will just tell you how important it is to express yourself, not only that first ever time in life! But that every single time when it is possible to show your care and concern in any relationship.
No one can read other person’s mind each and every time, so don’t be unrealistic to assume things that the person will realize things in an implicit manner and that there’s no need to be expressive in nature! You may love a person very dearly but let your words and your actions mean the same. Let your presence make the person feel a sense of security and warmth.
Expressing for one time doesn’t mean it has an life time effect. You need to be there in times of need, you need to reach out to the person adjusting your problems, you need to be understanding and supportive if you really mean when you say someone is your FOREVER.
Falling in love with a face is easiest job, falling for a soul is something like time taking
Expressing your love is an easy affair, but meaning it for a lifetime is more of hard efforts
And equally important – signing the Archies cards as “my forever and always” is as simple as scribbling ABCD of rough paper but meaning that always and forever is like painting the canvas colorful without colors!
कसूर ना हमारा था ना उनका!
कसूरवार तो ये जालीम वक्त ठेहरा
और शिकार दो आशीक हुए!
I would like to open the blog with an question which you may answer at the end!
“Is this normal!? ”
It was “his” message, I will be there within an hour and it was Topsy turvy situation for me!!
I mean…. That dried throat…those butterflies in my tummy… the clock where minutes seemed to be ticking slow… the world seemed to be more colorful
The blue color box which has few colors spill on its outside out of nowhere seemed to be something so very filmy… Like the blue sky with colorful rainbow on it!!
I was fine just few minutes before reading a novel and sipping my coffee… All of sudden after that blink on my phone it feels like the breeze is touching my cheeks and making me feel more in love… The chirping birds are singing love songs… And the setting sun is painting the sky just for us!!
And a little later… I looked at myself in mirror with idiotic thoughts like…. OMG!!! Is this something like multiple personality disorder or is the heart that is pumping like the basket ball tribles once it is bounced showing signs of some cardiac arrest?!? The eyes visualizing him in every corner of my room was shouting about my madness and gush of thousands of pretty smilez on my face!
I was standing in the window which I hardly even look at… More then 10 glimpses down the lane searching a familiar face and ears all alert to hear his bike honk out loud!! (whereas honking normally irritates me to its peak)
A girl who normally has messy hair and clumsy attire is my description for own self (and I don’t have any arguments on the same😉😉)… Just took a look saying… Is my skin too oily… Am I too stout… This shirt is fine, right!? And what not… But then next minute I setlled down with my empty coffee mug like… Oh… Any ways he loves me in my pimple face or that complete make up wala face… So rest again!!!
It was 7th time on the lazy Saturday evening that I took tons of efforts to go downstairs and see whether he has come!! And nearly every second minute my poor cell phone was disturbed to check out whether he has come!
I was confused….
WHAT IS THIS???
And just typing this all in my words on my laptop… As my fingers moved on keyboard, there comes a hand guiding my fingers to end the blog as
“THIS IS LOVE – a heart to heart connection of one soul to the other”
Standing right behind me… There he had come with my favorite chocolates peeping out of his pocket!!!
(And Wow!!! What a beautiful way to end the blog was he writing the closing line)
I would rather prefer being like a understanding wife…. Then a demanding girlfriend!!!
I would love to get a rose then an expensive date!!!
I would love the lakeside view then the five star ambience
I would enjoy a two wheeler ride where I just hug my world (that’s you) then that comfy ride in a Merc!!!
I would like you going on knees and proposing me then a heavy hefty party announcement!!!
I would love to be the girl who you choose to see escaping from the eyes of world then the one whom you would love to show off in a party!!!
I would love to sit for hours and make cards then to simply pick up a bottle of perfume and a Archies card!!!
I would prefer your name in mehendi then on a tattoo
Its a list…
I would love to go back to our old traditions and follow them religiously and be typical…. Then the hottie babe whom the world watches out…
I would love to just attract your eyes every single time you watch out to me!!!
(of course except a few bad ones… 😉😉😉😉😉)
Its beautiful to be classic in trendy world!!!!
#smile and spread smiles
She was that typical “jhalli punjabi kudi”
And he was a that “kattar shivbhakt maratha”
She was lost in her fantasies
And he was in love with hard realities of life…
She was delicate butterfly
And he was the ferrocious lion
Jingling bangles was her favorite rhythm
And his heart would dance on loud dhol taasha
Her every childish nuisance was understood by his calmness
His every mysterious “I am fine” was read by her silently
Words never were a means to describe their feelings between them
All they needed was a glance through each others eyes!!
Time together hurried and time apart never ticked!!!
Two different cultures had met…
Two different lifestyles were tied in a fate…
They accepted each other barring every small difference…
But will their families embrace the beautiful fragrance!?
A innocent question of two hearts which were now one…
A small hesitation which at times took away their smiling shining sun…
Yet love found them both fall together…
Yet love matched their likes…
Yet love made them dance on its tunes…
Because even in hard and robustness of his physique….
Her gentle touch made him melt…
And her most sensitive eyes became strong enough when he needed some might…
Yes!!! Love can make things go upside down
Love can simply make the world smile in hardest situation…
(Complete story of my today’s instagram post!!!!
A dedication to a beautiful lovestory…. Stay blessed both of u)
Love and spread love
Smile and spread smiles