Readers Attention

They say a reader can live thousand lives before he dies! They reading gives you unending happiness! People say what exercise is to body – reading is to mind! And the never ending list of why and how reading helps one to just be better version of self!

So here we are starting this drive to read and read and read!

It is like we challenge ourselves to read 2 books a month. You can do it silently and take a note of your own reading or you can use social media to inspire people around to read by telling about the good books you have read.

Tag your friends or join the whatsapp group made where readers across the city, state, country and may be even globe share the experiences they had while reading the books they have picked.

Feel free to mail for further details on letsendthestigma1@gmail.com

Communication

This question peeped through my mind all the while throughout the day as I was sitting on the first bench of my Orientation Programme before starting my articleship days “As to why this 35 hours are a necessity when all you do here is just speak, chatter all round and nothing else?”

The question hovered me even on the last day and I wondered when will it be answered. And yes! It was answered rightly on the very first day of my articleship (where I was interviewed before, which as well included communication skills – because the interviewers didn’t scrutinize my results deeply, all they were interested is the way I present myself). It was my first day of articleship where I was accompanied by my senior and colleagues, and I was handed over a file to compare the TDS as per books, TDS certificates along with form 26AS. I was blank because all this was read in books but I never knew how to download 26AS, neither was I thorough with the accounting software. I kept staring at the files for a while with an awkward look till my senior came and with the bossy voice instructed me – “If you aren’t aware of things, ask for help and start working immediately!!” And then, I understood why was OP conducted, those 35 hours did work miracles and I could get through things.

Basically, not only on the office desk but at every platform communication plays crucial role. Giving you an example how effective communication helps you to make the listeners visualize better and in turn it makes the process of understanding the facts better. Let us just compare – and ask yourself which sounds better and conveys better.
1st way – I started my morning with coffee
2nd way – I opened the chilly winter morning by treating myself with a steaming hot aromatic coffee.

I am sure the second way makes you feel the situation right. Same happens in our teams while working, if we can convey the ideas well, we can convince well and gradually that affects our career growth. There are many ways through which we can be effective communicators like effective listening, reading of facts and having knowledgeable content to share in the right manner with the RIGHT TONE (very important when you are in a verbal conversation)
Simple way to start can be add minute details to your observation and these will be automatically added to your words.

Speak sensible and Spread your ideas.

Plan your plans

“Always be careful of where you run to. When the going gets tough, take it easy and slow down, else you venture into the den of lions.” Just wait and take time to observe what the nature has to tell you. Everything need not be perfectly as per your plan everytime but yeah you cannot blindly step into things without plan at any time!!! Before taking a giant leap just stop to notice that what and how the small steps taken will help you to stand out better and brighter. Take every step cautiously be it in terms of academics, social, personal or any other genre.

“Don’t ever step in the market unprepared and unplanned

Make it a point to give your best shot, with proper plan and preparations

You might be slow to reach your goal, but definitely you will stay there longer and stronger”

 

Jallosh 2K18

A wonderful event…. Like every other beautiful day that rises up with a awesome sun and ends with a mesmerizing sunset… Something same happened at Jallosh 2K18!!!!

Of course special thanks to all committee members with chairperson and chief guest as well as our judges, participants… Each and every volunteer out there who literally gave up their comfort level and took up the responsibility of the tasks allocated, the branch staff for kindest cooperation, the event organizers, the sponsors and the most important all viewers…..the people who made the event be a success!!!!

To follow the fun at jallosh 2k18 do visit Instagram

Stalkers

Stalkers! Yeah a breed of evil which by mistake were placed as humans! The simple reason being that I am being so hard in words is that these ****** dont even realize that they just spoil a person’s life! Had it been that you got guts, come in front, stand face to face and talk why play hied and seek and make one feel so uncomfortable! How can you be humans when you can’t even respect someone else’s life! Whatever!

Are you stalked by someone ever?? Where you could actually feel your heart throbbing so hard as if it will jump out of your body breaking through all boundaries or simply legs shivering as if you were on vibrating mode or sweating in the AC room! And in the extremes where you feel like ending yourself was the only option!

Well, than this one is for you! So what will you do in such case, first thing just let people around you know about it, may be your friend, a colleague or whomever you are comfortable with!

Next, be bold enough to approach the authorities. Specially for the girls, feminism is not a synonym to weakness! Get up, speak up, voice your own issues because you cant expect your father/brother/boyfriend/male best friend or husband to be there all the time! Of course they are your strength but be ready to face it alone as well!

Few other things, dont let it bother your peace, because that is what the stalker wants, to scare the shit out of you! So just have your routine, update your friends with your daily schedule! And live the life your way!

Ignore! Learn to ignore what is not in your concern!

And lastly! For the ones who take hard and heavy decisions of quitting their regular lifestyle, keep themselves indoor, stop being social and all that stuff (with extremes as said before) People come and go! You get a life only once! Enjoy that gift thoroughly!!

Friends! Live and let live! Let your presence be reason to smiles and happiness and not tears and pain for others!!!

Smile and spread smiles! Happy Morning!

Happy Birthday Chasmish!!!!

People say “Ek Ladka Aur Ladki Kabhi Dost Nahi Ho Sakte” and another one goes as a “girl and boy being best friends, at a point of time fall for each other but may be at different times and so they remain in friend zone category for lifetime!!!!!!!

And I am lucky…. Ki we remain as besties!!!

Cz I can simply be the worst and best version with you… And that too no melodrama…!!!

Chasmish!
Waise toh saath mai the wadiaz k science se!
Par meeting was fixed Modern k commerce mai!
I was that quite shy girl starting mai 😉 (okay, don’t show that teeth mai sacchi shy tha….!!!)
Cz science chodna was tough apne aap mai
Slowly the demand supply curves intersected with my lips!
And I started opening up with tea and chips
From the log table to debits and credits
From 0.1 perfection to reconciliation edits
The journey began….
And started my friendship with a stupid gang!
Initiated during some event’s preparation
When I ran the cutter on your finger and stared at you in agitation!

And till date…. I hope I am the most irritating nasty idiotic dramatic rotlu, the most sweet and beautiful types bestie of your life… (Beautiful – I have to be being the only girl in the group has its own advantages!!) If not mai declare karti hu ki mai hu….

So many things to say… Well tu mera support system which you have to be any damn case…. Haa kabhi kabhi the way to motivate me to get up and fight is thoda irritating but then that’s what friends are supposed to be !!! (Bahot bol diya na mai!!!)

Okay, happiest birthday chasmish….

Love you…Love you loads…
Mujhe and sayali ko bacchi bolta h and khud toh children’s day par born hua h… Aaaaa… We all miss you Putta… (Though I don’t know ye naam kyu h apne group ka… )
Come back soon… Coz once sayali and me are qualified chartereds we need financing for the start up🤣🤣🤣

(And haa… Waha Nigeria mai koi ladki patana mat… Waise patne nai wali tujhse fir bhi…. )

Hey guys, if anyone from Nigeria is reading this, we are sending a greatest gem in crown of friendship, one of the priceless pearls in my friend list, take care of this idiot!!!

Happiest Birthday Chamish!!! Stay Blessed forever!!!

May all your dreams come true!!!!🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂